Advice from myself for myself and others,
Stop being ashamed of who you are. Embrace who you are and if you’re not happy about something then change it. What’s in the past is gone. It doesn’t define who you are. What you do now defines who you are. Now what he said or what she said.
Stop doubting decisions and second guessing. Take the initiative and regret nothing. Life isn’t stopping for regrets.
Step up and live your life.